Intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, nobility, lack of greed. If he has children, it is important for me how he treats them and what kind of relationship he has with them. Respect for his mother, women and people in general. No bad of his ex-wife and children. Any hobby, as long as he likes it; self-sufficient and busy; no addiction to bad habits, especially alcohol (this is important!) It doesn't really matter to me if he smokes or not. I want him to love home comfort. Being successful and self-sufficient.
Not an easy question... I am responsible, independent (even too much...), can be headstrong (but with age I learned to avoid sharp corners), flexible in thinking, easy -going. I don't like to put off until tomorrow what can be done to do today, learn to be susceptible to criticism. I do not accept stupidity, lies and meanness. I believe that people mainly do not change. It seems to me that everything is good with me with intelligence and perception of the world, though it is difficult to evaluate yourself in this way. I discuss and settle misunderstandings. aim to prove something. If I set goals (big ones), I achieve them, although values and perception of the world change, and sometimes the goals I set earlier seem irrelevant now. If I am in love, but if I am, it's forever.
Trust, understanding, ability to concede and patience.
If in relation to a man, then: friendship, trust, understanding, common interests and appropriate intimate partnership
For a long time I believed that strong and genuine relationship happens only once in a lifetime, and I don't need or want anything less. But over the time my maximalist attitude have faded, and now I think (and want!) to meet a man and look at the world a little differently, more simply
I have everything I need for happiness, but like any woman, I want to have a man's energy around me, a person with whom you can just keep quiet. I think now, when I look at many things simply and without breaking a sweat. I'm not talking about global things like the end of the war, because then our whole country will be absolutely happy.
Intelligence, sense of humor (I consider lack of humor to be a sign of lack of intelligence), responsibility for oneself, for one's family and for those one cares about; responsibility for what one says and does (no empty talk); honesty, decency, balance, flexibility of thinking, when one is interested in something, when one has a business and loves it; intelligent simplicity and modesty; ability to overcome difficulties, optimism.
Friendship plays a key role in my life, as well as in the life of any person, because friends are people who share your moral and spiritual values, people who are part of your cultural and social life, who will come to aid and support you in joy and sorrow. But on the other hand, I understand and realize that the most important friend is you yourself, because if you cannot understand yourself, are not interested and afraid of yourself, then no closest friend in the world will be able to fill this and help you understand yourself and others. I am grateful to my fate that I have real and valuable friends.
Is confidence in each other
What makes me happy (if today, we can talk about happiness...) is that everything is fine in my family, the families of my close friends (everyone is healthy and alive). First of all, my happiness is my daughter's smile and happiness and when I take care of someone. And also, I feel moral comfort when I can help people with something. Also, I feel happiness when I see disabled soldiers who, despite everything, survived and are fighting for life, learning to live in a new way, when there is a sparkle in their eyes.
In school and youth years, was very active in volleyball, now it's just long walks when there is an opportunity.