My ideal man is mature, calm, smiling, and has an intelligent sense of humor. A man of his word, someone reliable. He would not create drama, shouting, or unnecessary chaos. Honest and decent, yet able to find compromises. He enjoys traveling, walking, and quality leisure time. It is important that he is not stingy. This is not about wastefulness, but excessive frugality or suggesting splitting bills 50/50 pushes me away. I can pay for myself, but then I would see a man more as a friend. I definitely could not be with someone who treats animals or people badly, is aggressive, or capable of betrayal.
I am sociable, but I also feel comfortable and happy being alone. Friendly, sincere, and diplomatic. I start my morning with a good cup of coffee — it is my “me time.” Then I take care of my cats (I have two; they stayed with me after my former marriage ????), do 15 minutes of Pilates, take a shower, and turn on my work laptop. During breakfast, I check my emails to get into the work mood. From 9 AM to 6 PM, I am focused on work tasks, but during my lunch break, I always go for a walk. In the evening — gym, dinner, something light on Netflix, kissing my cats — and then going to bed (preferably around 11:30 PM).
Respect for another person’s opinion, the ability to listen, and finding reasonable compromises. My principle is: “It’s better to be happy than to be right.”
I have a wonderful adult son, Yan. He graduated from a university in Slovakia and now lives in Austria. We have a very friendly and warm relationship, and I love visiting him. At the same time, I try not to be a “helicopter mother.” ????
Loyalty, care, and the desire to make your loved one happy.
Faithfulness for me is no physical or emotional betrayal. Also — always standing by your partner in front of others, while expressing concerns privately.
I want to meet “my person” and build a happy, healthy relationship.
To have a balance between responsibilities (work, home life) and the things I love (relationships, rest, sports, and a certain level of personal freedom).
Integrity, honesty, kindness to animals, and respect for others.
I deeply value my friends who have been by my side for many years. With them, I don’t need to meet often or try to be a “better version” of myself. I can simply send 100 emotional voice messages — and they will support me. Or they won’t judge. Or they will say, “Let’s go for coffee in Vytachiv — it will make you feel better.”
It is a basic need. I would not tolerate even micro‑betrayals, such as romantic messaging with someone on social media “just for fun.”
I truly enjoy walks and being in nature. I also cannot imagine my life without moderate fitness training three times a week.
Fitness — three times a week; hiking — when I am in the mountains (2–3 times a year).